Wednesday, March 31, 2010
As I think I've mentioned in previous blog posts, I'm the mother of 2 middle school daughters. (Mix that sentence with the title of this post and I'm sure you can guess where I'm going with this!)
As you can imagine, sometimes emotions run high when it comes to which movies are appropriate, the right time for curfew, and what it means to "clean your room". Many times we end our family discussions, lively as they might be, by saying "it's not what you said, it's how you said it."
Around this time of year, that comment applies to our professional community. We get stressed out because of testing. The behavior of our students is often more difficult to manage when the weather gets nice. The year is quickly coming to a close and we still have so much to do! All of these things can be cause for short-tempers and sarcasm.
I have this quotation hanging on the bulletin board above my desk.
"Ninety percent of the friction of daily life is caused by the wrong tone of voice." Anonymous
It helps me to remember this. Just thought I'd share.
Posted by TLC: Teaching. Learning. Community. at 7:00 AM